John 14:1-6; Romans 8:31-39; Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
In the Name of the Father and of the + Son and of the Holy Spirit.
Our reading from Ecclesiastes is likely well known to those born in the 1970s or earlier due to the popular song inspired by it, “To Everything There Is A Season (Turn, Turn, Turn).” However, even among those who know the song well, I imagine the version they know best is from the American folk-rock group The Byrds, which was released in 1965. Fewer, I suspect, will know the original version written by Pete Seeger in 1959, released in 1962. The song speaks of God’s divine providence in prescribing to all human life and human actions an ordered time and purpose: “A time to be born; a time to die; a time to plant; a time to reap; a time to kill; a time to heal; a time to laugh; a time to weep. “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.”
Dear Rae Jean, Scott, Suzanne, and Amy, beloved grandchildren, family, friends, brothers and sisters in Christ, you are likely to experience several of these feelings and emotions today and for time to come as we commend our brother Larry Kueker to His Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, and as we give thanks to the Lord for Larry, his faith and life, and the blessing he was to you and to so many, all to the glory of the Lord.
Eighty-one years is a long life to be sure. But is it long enough? Yesterday afternoon I met with two parishioners, both in their late ‘90s, who have had enough of time and are ready to go to heaven to be with Jesus. Just a few weeks ago I officiated a funeral and burial for an unborn child of only six weeks old. As they say, time is relative. What seems a long time to one is too little time for another. But all things happen according to the Lord’s time and purpose. We all know that the past few years weren’t the best or the easiest for Larry health wise. He had trouble with his heart, trouble with his foot, mobility issues, and he just couldn’t do many of the things he enjoyed doing, and that weighed heavy on him. I don’t really know how Larry felt about all that, if he was getting tired and maybe ready to go? Perhaps some of you know. It certainly wouldn’t be an atypical feeling for someone to have. But the truth is that our lives are in the hands of our Lord who made us and redeemed us. We do not come into our lives, nor do we leave them, by our own choosing. “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.”
Throughout Larry’s eighty-one years, however, there was much time for life, and love, and for embracing and laughter. Larry liked to work with his hands, to build things, and to solve problems. He loved building things for his grandkids, like a doll gymnastics bar and a free library for the neighborhood. He fabricated a plow to put on the front end of a toy tractor. He loved to teach his children and grandchildren how to work with their hands, how to build things, and fix things, and do things for themselves. After seeing Larry’s Garage at the visitation Tuesday afternoon, I have to believe that Larry learned much of these qualities from his father and passed them on to you. Along the way, Larry was teaching, quietly, often with no words at all, teaching by example, how to love, how to work hard, how to persevere, how to care about others, and how to live with faith. He made you feel like you could do anything you put your mind to. “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.”
Larry worked hard. He was the provider for the family. He wanted his family to have what they needed, and they did. He loved to watch the kids’ and grandkids’ ballgames, and he made sure you got to church on Sunday. You hurried up if he was honking the horn in the driveway. Larry liked to be to church on time, and that meant early. Again, he led by example and made sure that his children had a right relationship with their Lord. Larry also enjoyed bowling and playing pool, cards, and even that most complicated of card games, Schafskopf. Larry and Rae Jean enjoyed the water, and the family learned to fish, swim, water ski, and to enjoy the outdoors. He loved cars, especially his convertible Impala, and enjoyed the Waverly Car Cruise. He loved his tractors. He loved his shop and woodworking. He built the little paper and pencil holders you see on the pew in front of you. Larry served the church as a trustee, helping to care for the church property and grounds. He put a lift in his house for David, digging a hole in the basement and through the upstairs floor. He built Amy’s house! Just days before he died Larry was on his tractor with the forks out lifting and moving large pieces of a tree that came down in recent storms. Larry was a Jack-of-All-Trades and a positive influence on so many. “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.”
The thing about time is that you and I are bound in it, but God is not. For us, we have a beginning, and then we’re on a timeline that goes only one way; you can’t go back, you can only go forward, and, eventually, inescapably, we die. But that’s not all there is to our story. God is outside of time; he sees all time at the same time. That’s what it means to be eternal. He knew Larry before there was a Larry, before there was a heaven or earth, and he knew Larry’s days and deeds before there were any of them. More than that, God prepared a way of salvation for Larry, and for you, and for us all, before the foundation of the world. The Son of God became flesh and suffered and died for Larry, and for you and me, and for all the world, and rose again having destroyed death. Therefore, “Let not your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in his Son Jesus. In the Father’s house there are many rooms, and Jesus has gone before you to prepare a place for you there.” The Lord has called Larry home to where his sheep may safely graze. One day he will call you there as well. “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.”
“What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things?” “No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
One more thing I’d like to share with you: Blessed are those who die in the Lord, for they are with him. When we celebrate the Lord’s Supper we hear these words of the liturgy, “Therefore, with angels, archangels, and with all the company of heaven we laud and magnify your glorious name….” “All the company of heaven” now includes Larry. When you miss your loved ones who have died in the Lord and you want to be near them, you might go to the cemetery where their body has been laid to rest. Better still, come to church and to the Lord’s Supper, for where Jesus is present with his body and blood, there also present are the angels and archangels and the company of heaven, those we love who have died in the Lord. In the Divine Service, heaven literally comes down to earth, and we, bound in time, can join in praising the Lord with those outside of time in eternity. See you next Sunday. Larry won’t be honking for you because he's already there. “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.”
In the + Name of Jesus. Amen.