In the Name of the Father and of the + Son and of the Holy Spirit.
The social dynamics of a dinner invitation can be a fascinating study in human behavior. We are generally far more comfortable being the inviter than the invitee. Why? Because the inviter remains in control. The invitee becomes dependent upon another. And we do not like that. If we accept an invitation, what is one of the first things we ask? “What can I bring?” We want to contribute something. We want to pay our way. We want to avoid feeling indebted. Deep down, we are uncomfortable receiving what we have not earned. And, what if we do not want to accept the invitation at all? Then we make excuses.
Excuses are attempts to justify ourselves, ease our guilt, and shift responsibility elsewhere. Adam blamed Eve. Eve blamed the serpent. In the end, they both blamed God. And that happened in the third chapter of the Bible! The desire to be independent and in control is deeply rooted in fallen humanity. It is one of the fruits of Original Sin. We do not want to depend upon God. We want to be our own gods, accountable to no one and beholden to no one. That is why we make excuses.
And that is why grace is so offensive to our sinful flesh. The very idea that we can contribute nothing to our salvation, nothing to our justification, nothing to satisfy our debt before God, strikes at the heart of our pride. We want to bring something. We want some credit. We want some control. But grace strips all of that away. So we run. We hide. We make excuses. We attempt to justify ourselves. But the Lord sees through it all. Therefore, there are really only two possibilities. We can continue running from Him in fear and rebellion. Or we can let His Word put the old sinner to death so that He may raise us to new and eternal life.
“Blessed is everyone who will eat bread in the kingdom of God!” That statement is absolutely true. To eat bread in the kingdom of God is blessedness itself. Apart from that, there is no lasting blessing. But who would reject such an invitation? Those who do not want to be blessed by someone outside themselves.
Jesus tells the Parable of the Great Banquet while dining in the house of a ruler of the Pharisees. He notices that the guests are wealthy, respected, and influential men. He notices how they seek places of honor. He notices the endless calculations of status and advantage. And so He teaches: “When you give a dinner or a banquet, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or rich neighbors, lest they also invite you in return and you be repaid. But when you give a feast, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind.” In other words, invite those who cannot repay you.
The flesh hates this teaching because the flesh turns every relationship into a transaction. It wants an advantage. It wants leverage. It wants a return on investment. But grace does not work that way. True blessing is found in receiving what we cannot earn and giving where we cannot be repaid. That is why Jesus pronounces blessings upon the poor, the hungry, the persecuted, and the reviled. Such people are often in the best position to receive grace because they know they have need.
The self-sufficient do not think they need grace. The poor in spirit do. Those who believe themselves independent invite people who can advance their reputation, increase their wealth, or provide future benefits. Such invitations are not acts of generosity but acts of self-interest. The guests become tools to be used rather than people to be loved. But the Lord gives differently. He gives to those who cannot repay Him. He blesses those who have nothing to offer. He invites those who have no claim upon His generosity. That is the great scandal of grace.
In the parable, those first invited refuse to come. One has purchased a field. Another has oxen to examine. Another has married a wife. None of these things are evil in themselves. The problem is that they become excuses. They all say, in one way or another, “I have something more important to do.” And so they dishonor the host. They reject his generosity. They refuse his invitation. Believing themselves rich, they discover that they are poor. Believing themselves free, they become slaves. Believing themselves independent, they cut themselves off from the very source of life.
So the invitation goes elsewhere. “Go out quickly to the streets and lanes of the city, and bring in the poor and crippled and blind and lame.” And when there is still room: “Go out to the highways and hedges and compel people to come in, that my house may be filled.” Those who know their need receive the invitation with joy. Those who know they are hungry come to the feast. Those who know they are poor receive riches.
“The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight.” This is First Commandment language. “You shall have no other gods.” What does this mean? “We should fear, love, and trust in God above all things.” There is only one gracious Host. There is only one true Inviter. There is only one Lord who gives every good and perfect gift. To reject Him is foolishness. To prefer anything above Him is idolatry. To trust in anything more than Him is death. Your excuses cannot hide your sin any better than Adam and Eve's fig leaves covered their nakedness. God sees through them all.
And those things we often place ahead of Him are passing away even now. Fields become barren. Oxen grow old and die. Possessions decay. Even husbands and wives, precious gifts though they are, cannot be kept forever in this life. Everything in this fallen world passes away.
But Wisdom has built her house. She has prepared the feast. The table is set. The banquet is ready. It is finished. “Blessed is everyone who will eat bread in the kingdom of God!” The question is not whether the feast is prepared. The question is whether you will come. Will you receive what God freely gives? Will you confess your need? Will you acknowledge that you are not self-sufficient? For the fear of the Lord begins with telling the truth: You are a sinner who needs forgiveness. You are dead and need life.
And yet you are invited. The Lord has prepared a feast for His Son, a feast at which He is both Host and Meal. Come and eat the Bread of Life. Come and drink the blood of Life Incarnate for the forgiveness of sins, the strengthening of faith, and life everlasting. Come, but bring nothing except your wretched self. Do not attempt to purchase admission. Do not attempt to earn your seat. This feast is by invitation alone, without cost and without repayment.
But know this: if you eat and drink at the Lord's banquet, you will not leave as you came. You will be changed. You will be filled. You will be blessed. And having been blessed, you will become a blessing to others. You will be His servants and messengers in the world, loving not merely in word or talk, but in deed and in truth, to the glory of the Father, through the Son, and by His Most Holy Spirit.
In the + Name of Jesus. Amen.
