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Matthew 15:21-28; 1 Thessalonians 4:1-7; Genesis 32:22-32
In the Name of the Father and of the + Son and of the Holy Spirit.
If we are to get straight to the point of this day’s theme, we must learn about faith. Now, faith can be a difficult thing to pin down. Thankfully, Holy Scripture interprets itself and defines faith for us: “Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the certainty of things unseen,” proclaims the preacher to the Hebrews. Notice those words: assurance and certainty. In our common usage, few would include such words in their definition of faith. And yet that is precisely the point. Faith is neither blind nor irrational, as many suppose, even though it does not depend upon verification according to the senses. Neither is faith weak, for it is not a thing in itself. Faith is unconditional trust in that which is absolutely and unswervingly true, the incarnate Word of God, Jesus Christ, who is Truth.
Moreover, faith is not a choice that you make, nor is it a work that you do. You do not choose to believe, though you can refuse to believe. You do not manufacture faith within yourself, though you can certainly think, say, and do things contrary to faith that, over time, will harden your heart into unbelief. Faith is a gift of God’s grace. If you have faith, then thanks be to God for this precious gift. And if you find your faith weak, or even faltering, then repent. Turn from the path that leads to death. Cry out to the God who desires to give you His life.
Further, faith is not quantifiable. You cannot measure it. If you have faith, you have it; if you do not, you do not. And yet we do see faith in the words and deeds of others, in their confession. We often see what appears to be great faith precisely in those undergoing great affliction and distress. We marvel and say, “I don’t know how she does it.” “He just won’t give up.” But we are not given to measure or judge the faith of others. That belongs to God alone.
Faith is not about how much you have. Our Lord says that faith the size of a mustard seed is enough. The question is not quantity, but object. What does faith look like? And in whom does it trust?
It is for this reason that Jacob is set before us in Genesis 32. Jacob was fleeing from his brother Esau, who was coming with 400 men. Jacob sent his wives, his children, his servants, and all his possessions across the river. He remained alone. Stripped of comfort. Stripped of support. Waiting in the darkness for the brother he believed sought his life. And then, as if that were not enough, a Man wrestled with him through the night. Jacob later confesses that this Man was God Himself. Unable to overpower Jacob by ordinary means, the God-man touched Jacob’s hip and put it out of joint. Crippled. Exhausted. In pain. And still Jacob would not let Him go.
What do you do when God Himself seems to be your enemy? Jacob did not curse God. He did not accuse Him of injustice. He clung all the tighter. “I will not let You go unless You bless me.” And God did bless him. He gave him a new name: Israel, “he who strives with God and prevails.” Such is faith: to wrestle with God and yet prevail, not by overpowering Him, but by refusing to let go. To cling to Him in the dark. To trust His promises even when His hand seems heavy against you.
Jacob surely thought he might die, alone in the wilderness, crippled, with Esau approaching. And yet, when morning came, Esau did not kill him. He embraced him. The threat became reconciliation. The terror became mercy. Even Esau’s anger had been an instrument in God’s hand to test and refine Jacob’s faith, that it might produce perseverance and hope.
But the lesson does not end there. In the Gospel, we meet another wrestler, this time not a patriarch, but a Canaanite woman. An outsider. A Gentile. A mother with a demon-tormented daughter. She cries out to Jesus for mercy. And He is silent. She persists. The disciples urge Him to send her away. He speaks of being sent only to the lost sheep of Israel. Then He says words that sting: “It is not right to take the children’s bread and throw it to the dogs.”
What do you do when God seems silent? When your prayers appear to fall to the ground? When the cancer spreads, the miscarriage comes, the job is lost, the grave is filled? Do you curse God? Do you turn away? This woman does not. She agrees with Him. “Yes, Lord, yet even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from their masters’ table.” She confesses her unworthiness. She does not demand. She does not accuse. She clings. She trusts His mercy more than His apparent rejection. And Jesus answers, “O woman, great is your faith! Be it done for you as you desire.” And her daughter was healed instantly.
What does faith look like? It looks like Jacob limping at daybreak, still clinging to God. It looks like a Canaanite mother kneeling in the dust, pleading for crumbs. Faith is tenacious. Faith is resilient. Faith refuses to let go of Christ, even when Christ seems to push it away.
And here is the comfort: the One who wrestled Jacob and the One who tested the Canaanite woman is the same Lord who wrestles with you, not to destroy you, but to bless you. He wounds in order to heal. He tests in order to strengthen. He delays in order to deepen your trust.
Faith is a struggle. St. Paul exhorts us in 1 Thessalonians to walk in a manner pleasing to God, to live in holiness and honor. Such a life does not come without conflict. The flesh resists. The world entices. The devil accuses. And in the midst of it all, God disciplines those He loves, shaping them through trial into the image of His Son.
But He knows what you need, often quite different from what you think you need. And He supplies all that is necessary to support this body and life, and finally to bring you into eternal life. Even now, He feeds you. Like that Canaanite woman, you come as beggars. Like Jacob, you come wounded. And what does He give? Not mere crumbs, but the feast itself. The true body and blood of the God-man, given and shed for you for the forgiveness of sins.
Faith is the certainty that this is no symbol, no mere remembrance, but the very gift Christ promises. Faith is the assurance that, in eating and drinking, your sins are forgiven, your wrestling is not in vain, your clinging will not be disappointed. And so, when it seems that God has forgotten you, cry out with the psalmist: “Remember Your mercy, O Lord, and Your steadfast love… Let not my enemies exult over me. Redeem Israel, Your one who struggles, O God, out of all his troubles.”
Cling to Him. Wrestle if you must. Plead without ceasing. For He who wounds also heals. He who tests also blesses. And He will not let go of those who, by His grace, refuse to let go of Him.
In the + Name of Jesus. Amen.
